Good morning Married Couples,
Last week we started looking at the area of being bored in the marriage.
#1- Put each other on the top of our list.
#2- Make true confession.
Let your spouse know you are bored. Truth is they probably are also. Talk about what you are bored with and together come up with a solution. Be honest, but don't be cruel.
If it is something your spouse has done, this would be a great time to flush it out and address it.
Don't let the wall get any bigger than it is.
Hey, this is my challenge to the men---Take the lead and talk to your wife. Do it soon, like NOW!
#3- Get to know each other again.
Most men tell me they were more successful in knowing their spouse before they were married. Sure, you were talking a lot more than you are now.
Try going to the old favorite spots or things you would do together. Your spouse does not need to have the same interest that you do. But if you want excitement again, sacrifice some of your agenda to please each other.
The last 2, I will leave for next week. They are GOODIES!!!
Pastor G